Obituaries

Aleyamma Mathai

Aleyamma Mathai
[April 1, 1928 - February 10, 2024]

“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day”

- 2 Timothy 4:7-8

Aleyamma Mathai, was born into Pullavallil family, Maramon, Kerala on April 1, 1928, to P.T. Koshy and Mariamma Koshy. She was the second of six children, the late Annamma Koshy, late Mariamma Chacko, late P.K. Thomas, late Koshy P. Koshy and her surviving sister, Susan Zachariah. In her childhood, she developed a love for music through singing and learning to play the harmonium. She was a born leader among all siblings and was always dedicated to serving others.

After finishing teachers training, Aleyamma worked as a teacher for 35 years; at Mankombu Govt School where she later became the headmistress (Principal) and then retired from Vettiyar Govt. School (aka Irattapallikkudam).

She married the late P.G. Mathai on Jan 14, 1960, of Palolil house, Edappon, Kerala. She was blessed with three children, Susan, Susano, and George, sons-in-laws Babu and Abraham, daughter-in-law Darly, five grandchildren, Bibin and his wife Reshma, Dr. Babina and her husband Roshin, Anup and his wife Dr. Gabriella, Dr. Allen, and Divya, and a great-grandson, Juan.

She immigrated to the United States in 1986 and became a committed member of The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey. Her faith in the Lord was strong. Her favorite song ‘Yeshu Ennadisthanam aasha avanilathre’, gave her strength and peace during her last days.

She will be remembered as a staunch believer, who kept and brought her children up in faith. She will be missed, and her memory will remain an asset for many. A beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, she was also a role model for everyone, demonstrating how to live a life centered around Jesus.

Details of Wake and funeral service:

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Monday, 19 Feb 2024
Viewing: 4:00 PM – 7:30 PM at The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, Randolph
Funeral service: 7.30 PM at The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, Randolph

Tuesday, 20 Feb 2024
Viewing: 9:00 AM – 10:00 AM at The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, Randolph
Funeral service : 10.00 AM at The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, Randolph
Interment: Gate of Heaven Cemetery (225 Ridgedale Avenue, East Hanover, NJ 07936)

John Mathew

John Mathew
[Aug 27, 1938 - January 28, 2023]

“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day”

- 2 Timothy 4:7-8

John Mathew, 84, went to be with his Heavenly Father on January 28, 2023. John Mathew (also called Thampan by our Kerala Malayalee community) was born on August 27, 1938 to P. J. John and Aleyamma John in Eraviperoor, Kerala, India. Mr. P. J. John belonged to the Poozhikalayil family in Thadiyoor, Kerala, India, and Mrs. Aleyamma
John belonged to the Valliathannikal family in Eraviperoor, Kerala, India.

John spent his childhood in Kerala, India and British Africa, before continuing his adult education in England.

John married his wife Susan (Kulathakal family) on December 30, 1968.

John worked for Texaco, Inc. for over 30 years as an Accountant in England, then New York City, and later Beacon, NY; before retiring in 1998.

John was a founding member of The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, where he also served as church Trustee, Accountant, was involved in the Edavaka Mission and very much involved in their charitable works.
John survived a battle with cancer, but later succumbed to the decline of physical and cognitive function. He passed away on January 28, 2023 at his home in Hopewell Junction, NY, surrounded by family. The family would like to thank the many family members, friends, and caregivers, that provided support for John and Susan during this time.

John Mathew is survived by his devoted wife Susan (Santha), his son Dr. Aby J. Mathew, his son and daughter-in-law Roy and Stacy Mathew, and his precious grandchildren, Roy and Stacy’s children, Jacob, Sienna, and Derek. He is also survived by his 3 brothers and 2 sisters: Ninan John (Hannah, deceased), John Philip (Susamma), P. J. George (Rachel), Alice Abraham (Abraham Thomas), and Annie Thomas (Thomaskutty).

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Friday, 3 Feb 2023
Viewing: 4:00 PM – 7:30 PM at The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, Randolph
Funeral service: 7.30 PM at The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, Randolph

Saturday, 4 Feb 2023
Viewing: 9:00 AM – 10:00 AM at The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, Randolph
Funeral service : 10.00 AM at The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, Randolph
Interment: Gate of Heaven Cemetery (225 Ridgedale Avenue, East Hanover, NJ 07936)

Samuel Mathai

Samuel Mathai
[Dec 12, 1947 - January 22, 2023]

“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day”

- 2 Timothy 4:7-8

Samuel Mathai (Babykutty) 75, entered into heavenly abode on January 22, 2023. He was born on December 12, 1947 to the late Mr. T. M Samuel and Mrs. Rachel Samuel, Mangalathu Bethel, Venmony, Alapuzha. He grew up with four sisters, Gracy, Mariamma (Ammini), Aleyamma (Molly), Annamma (Valsa), whom he helped raise while their father was away for work in the Indian government.

He graduated high school with honors in 1964. In 1969, Samuel Mathai received his Bachelors degree, with Honors, in Organic Chemistry from NSS College, Pandalam, Kerala.

At his home parish, Sehion Mar Thoma Church, Venmony, he was among the founding members of the Youth League, taught as a Sunday School and VBS teacher, and performed as a choir coordinator. His lifelong devotion to Christ and his unwavering faith in God fueled his passion for service to the Church, and for his kindhearted altruism to family, friends, and neighbors alike.

After his education, he had briefly worked as a chemistry teacher in a private college. In 1973, he was one among the three selected out of thousands to work for the Subsidiary Intelligence Bureau, where he completed his 33 years of service. He had been stationed all over India throughout the span of his career,and had personally escorted the late Indian Prime Minister, Mrs.Indira Gandhi, as well as other VIPs.

He married Aleyamma Thomas (Ammukutty) of the Kochu-Vadakedathu family, Edayaranmula, on Jan 14th 1980. They have two sons Sam Mathew and Tom Mathew.

After opting for a voluntary retirement from his rank of Deputy Superintendent in 2006, he migrated to the US, joining his wife and children.

Samuel Mathai was an active member of The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey since he came to New Jersey.

His sense of humor and sharp wit always brought a smile to friends and family alike. He was very intelligent and held a broad spectrum of knowledge on various topics ranging from Calculus to Shakespeare. He was family oriented, modest, well-disciplined and left a legacy that will be cherished forever. And above all, he was God-fearing man who built his faith on the foundation of Rock that is Jesus Christ our Savior and Redeemer.

He passed away on Sunday, January 22nd 2023 at St. Barnabas Hospital in Livingston, NJ, surrounded by family and friends. He is now safe in the arms of the Lord whom he served his entire life, and is finally reunited with his forebears.

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Friday, 27 Jan 2023
Viewing: 5:00 PM – 7:30 PM at The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, Randolph
Funeral service: 7.30 PM at The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, Randolph

Saturday, 28 Jan 2023
Viewing: 9:00 AM – 10:00 AM at The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, Randolph
Funeral service : 10.00 AM at The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, Randolph
Interment: Gate of Heaven Cemetery (225 Ridgedale Avenue, East Hanover, NJ 07936)

Alex Idiculla

Alex Idiculla
[May 14, 1942 - December 4, 2022]

Alex Idiculla (Baby Idiculla) aged 80, entered into the heavenly abode on December 4, 2022. Alex Idiculla was born on May 14, 1942, to Pallivadakkethil family in Kottarakara, Kerala to the late Mr. and Mrs. Idiculla. The youngest of 8 siblings, he was affectionately called Baby, Babypan, and Babychayan by his family and friends.

Alex and his wife of 49 years, Mariam, made America their home in 1996. He studied at Fathima College, Kollam, Kerala, and moved to Mumbai to work for the electricity board. After a while, he returned to Kerala to operate his own business before leaving for the United States. Mathew and Ramani (Mariam's sister) Kurian were one of his dearest family that equipped him to balance his life here in the United States. He was known to be a passionate volleyball player and enjoyed playing carrom board games with his sons.

Alex regularly attended The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey since he arrived in the States.

Alex leaves behind his beloved wife Mariam, his sons Ashok and Anup, daughter-in-laws Priya (Preethi) and Prabha, and his grandkids Keziah, Jairuz, Kenzie, Maya, and Milan. He is also survived by siblings E. George and E. Kunjutty.

Alex is well loved and cared for by both sides of his family and will be dearly and deeply missed.

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Thursday, 8 Dec 2022
Viewing: 4:00 PM – 7:30 PM at The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, Randolph
Funeral service: 7.30 PM at The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, Randolph

Friday, 9 Dec 2022
Viewing: 9:00 AM – 10:00 AM at The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, Randolph
Funeral service : 10.00 AM at The Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, Randolph
Interment: Gate of Heaven Cemetery (225 Ridgedale Avenue, East Hanover, NJ 07936)

Mr .Roy Thomas

Roy Thomas
[April 27, 1945 – August 31, 2021]

Roy Thomas, 76, was called to the Lord on August 31, 2021. He was born on April 27, 1945 to the late T.B. Thomas and Kunjunjamma Thomas of the Thazhavaneth family in Venmoney, Kerala, India as the firstborn of three children.

Upon completing his primary education in Venmoney, he completed his BA from Catholicate College in Pathanamthitta and proceeded to obtain his MA from Pune University in Pune. Thereafter, he went on to obtain his first MBA from Vizag University in Vizakhapattanam and a second MBA from St. John's University in New York.

He arrived in America in March 1973, married the love of his life, Susan, on May 5, 1973 and made their home in New Jersey. They first resided in Jersey City, where they had their first child, Jeff, in 1974, and their second child, Julie, in 1979. They moved to Clifton in 1982, where they continued to reside until July 2021. He had a long and varied career in finance and was fondly known to many as “Insurance Roy”.

Roy served the Lord as an active member of the Mar Thoma Church. He was an original member of the Mar Thoma / CSI Congregation of Manhattan and then a founding member of the Mar Thoma Church of New Jersey, where he faithfully served both in leadership and support roles.

He is survived by his mother, Kunjunjamma (100 years old), loving wife, Susan, their son and daughter-in-law, Jeff and Lindsey, and daughter, Julie, and four grandchildren, Gavin (9), Jared (7), Violet (2), and Nora (1). He is also survived by his sister, Jancy Roy (Chengannur).

Roy will be remembered as a dependable and loving husband, father, grandfather, and friend to all. His warm demeanor, jovial personality, readiness with a joke, and willingness to help all those around him left an indelible impression on everybody who encountered him. Roy’s strong faith in God guided him in every aspect of his life. He was dedicated to his family and his grandchildren meant everything to him. He will live on in our hearts forever.

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Friday, Sep 3,  2021
Viewing: 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM  at The Mar Thoma Church of NJ (790 Rt 10 West, Randolph, NJ 07869)

Saturday, Sep 4 2021
Funeral service: 9:30 AM – 11:30 AM at The Mar Thoma Church of NJ (790 Rt 10 WestRandolph, NJ 07869)
Interment: 12:00 PM at Gates of Heaven Cemetery (225 Ridgedale Avenue, East Hanover, NJ 07936)

Jesus said “You are the Light of the World”. Every believer and member of the Mar Thoma Church should take up the responsibility to lighten others and hence our motto – Lighted to Lighten.

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